rejecting the advances of women is a man's shame; shameful is he who spurns a woman's invitation; not eating the meal set before him is a man's shameproverbsee also 据え膳【すえぜん】
rejecting the advances of women is a man's shame; shameful is he who spurns a woman's invitation; not eating the meal set before him is a man's shameproverbsee also 据え膳【すえぜん】
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N1常用
意set; lay a foundation; install; equip; squat down; sit down