[来る → きて] + は
[noun] + では
[verb て-form] + は + いけない/だめ/ならない/困る (prohibition/negative consequence)
[verb で-form] + は → じゃ(〜では → 〜じゃ)
The particle combination ては (often contracted to ちゃ in casual speech) is used to express that if a certain action or state occurs, an undesirable result will follow. It carries a strong sense of warning, prohibition, or negative consequence.
The most common use of ては is to state that doing something will lead to a negative outcome. It is frequently paired with negative expressions like いけない, だめ, こまる困る, or ならない.
In these patterns, ては literally means "if you do ~" and the following phrase states the negative consequence, creating the overall meaning of prohibition or strong advice against something.
Beyond explicit prohibition, ては can express that if something happens, a bad situation naturally results – often used to explain why something is problematic.
Here, the speaker is not giving a command but stating a cause-and-effect relationship where the condition leads to an undesirable outcome.
ては can also express repeated or alternating actions, often conveying a sense of frustration, monotony, or persistence.
In informal speech, ては contracts to ちゃ, and では contracts to じゃ.