敬酒不吃吃罚酒 | Chinese meaning

敬酒不吃吃罚酒【jìng jiǔ bù chī chī fá jiǔ】

lit. to refuse a toast only to be forced to drink a forfeit (idiom)
fig. to turn down a request only to be forced later to comply with it under pressure

lit. to refuse a toast only to be forced to drink a forfeit (idiom)
fig. to turn down a request only to be forced later to comply with it under pressure