The lesson

1.13 Family

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Overview

Learn Japanese family vocabulary. Japanese has two sets of family words depending on whether you are talking about your own family or someone else's.

Japanese family vocabulary has an important distinction: you use different words depending on whether you are talking about your own family or someone else's.

  • Plain forms (ちち、はは...) are used when referring to your own family to others
  • Honorific forms (おとうさん、おかあさん...) are used for someone else's family, or when directly addressing your own family members

This is part of the Japanese concept of in-group (内, uchi) vs. out-group (外, soto). When talking to someone outside your family, you lower your own family to show respect to the listener.

RelationYour family (plain)Their family / address (honorific)
fatherちちおとうさん
motherははおかあさん
older brotherあにおにいさん
older sisterあねおねえさん
younger brotherおとうとおとうとさん
younger sisterいもうといもうとさん
grandfatherそふおじいさん
grandmotherそぼおばあさん
parentsりょうしんごりょうしん
familyかぞくごかぞく

For younger siblings, the plain form is used in most situations — the honorific versions exist but are uncommon.

Sentence examples

My father is an office worker.
How old is your father?

Dialogue

A: How many people are in your family? B: Four. My father, mother, older brother, and me.

A: What does your older brother do for work? B: He's an office worker.

A: Do you have a grandfather and grandmother? B: Yes, my grandfather and grandmother live in Osaka.

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