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12.9 ~ものだ — The Way Things Are

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Overview

Learn ~ものだ, used to express general truths, nostalgic recollection, or strong expectation. Also learn ~ものではない for gentle prohibition and ~ものの for concession.

~ものだ — general truths and how things should be

Plain form + ものだ

~ものだ expresses that something is the natural way things are — a general truth, social norm, or expectation based on common sense.

Children are supposed to play outside (that's just how it is).
Failure happens to everyone (it's a fact of life).
Life doesn't go the way you plan (that's just the way it is).

~たものだ — nostalgic recollection

Verb た-form + ものだ

Used to reflect fondly (or wistfully) on past habits:

~ものではない / ~ものじゃない — shouldn't / you shouldn't

Expresses that something is socially inappropriate or morally wrong:

You shouldn't bully people (it's just not done).
You shouldn't say things like that.

~ものの — although; even though

Used as a conjunction meaning "although":

Although I made an effort
it didn't go well.

Dialogue

A: Don't you think young people today don't have manners? B: Well, that's just how it is when you're young.

Teacher: We used to play here a lot in the old days. Things have changed.

A: Some people don't keep their promises. B: Promises are meant to be kept. That's how I was brought up.

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