[verb (dict form)] + ものではない / もんじゃない
ものではない (often shortened to もんじゃない in casual speech) is used to express that something should not be done or that something is not the kind of thing one does. It conveys a general moral judgment, social norm, or common-sense expectation rather than a specific prohibition directed at one person.
The most common usage is to state that an action goes against common sense, social norms, or good manners. It often carries a tone of admonishment or general life advice.
Unlike 〜~てはいけない, which is a direct prohibition ("you must not"), ものではない sounds more like a general principle – "that's not something people should do." It is used by elders, teachers, or authority figures giving advice or lecturing.
Less commonly, ものではない can express that something is practically impossible or extremely difficult – often implying the speaker tried or considered it and found it unbearable or unfeasible.
In this usage, the verb is often in the potential form + た before ものではない.
In spoken Japanese, ものではない is frequently shortened: