[noun] + どころではない/どころじゃない
[verb (dictionary form)] + どころではない/どころじゃない
どころではない (also written as どころじゃない in casual speech) is used to express that a situation is so extreme or pressing that something else is completely out of the question. It conveys the idea that "this is not the time/place for ~" or "~ is the last thing on my mind right now."
The speaker uses this pattern to emphasize that due to current circumstances, they cannot even consider doing or thinking about the thing mentioned before どころではない.
Attach どころではない to a noun or the dictionary form of a verb to dismiss that action or thing as impossible given the situation.
When used with verbs in the dictionary form, the pattern emphasizes that the action cannot possibly be performed right now.
This expression carries a strong emotional tone – frustration, urgency, or overwhelm. The speaker is saying that their current situation is so serious that the mentioned activity is far from being a priority. It is different from simply saying "I can't do X"; it implies "X isn't even on the radar because the situation is that bad."
In spoken Japanese, どころじゃない is the common casual contraction.
Be careful not to confuse this with ~どころか, which means "far from ~" and is used to present an unexpected contrast or escalation (e.g., "far from helping, he made things worse"). どころではない focuses specifically on dismissing something as impossible due to circumstances.